It all started in 1967, when home daycare providers Paula Smithson of Windham and Nancy Dow, who now resides in Casco, joined forces to create the Birchwood Day Nursery School, at one point at the North Windham Union Church, 723 Roosevelt Trail in Windham.
Smithson and Dow eventually handed the reigns over to other trusted owners, Susan Attwood and Carol Black- all have made their indelible mark on young children, creating the beloved preschool today located at 1003 River Road.
But
after 55 years of providing early childhood exploration and teachable moments
to those three years old and above, Birchwood will give its final high-fives
and hugs for a job well done on Friday, July 1.
The
community will feel the loss of this much-loved preschool with its welcoming
crayon fence surrounding the driveway as Director Connie DiBiase officially
announced her retirement.
“With
my 70th birthday approaching, I realized I was ready to travel and spend more
time with my children and grandchildren, who live in various parts of the U.S.,
with one family moving soon to Finland,” DiBiase said. “Also, my husband
retired a little over 12 years ago, and he has been waiting very patiently for
me to join him.”
The bittersweet decision to step down was not an easy one for DiBiase. She stated she tried to find an assistant director to prepare for the directorship role but had very little luck finding the right person interested in taking over the position.
“Not finding an individual to step into the role of the director made my decision more difficult because I had to think about Birchwood ending,” DiBiase said. “This has been one of the most bittersweet times in my life because I love these children – I love the people I work with – and I love the parents. But I was worried about the options that would leave parents due to the current shortage of childcare.”
DiBiase
has every reason to feel a bit sentimental as she makes this transition. Out of
the 55 years, this center has been an educational staple for the community;
DiBiase has been a part of the Birchwood family for 37 years.
“I got
my start here through my oldest daughter. She attended Birchwood when she was
just 4,” said DiBiase, a former art teacher at Manchester School in Windham.
“One day, when I dropped off my daughter, I was asked if I’d be interested in
substituting and began substituting soon after. Since then, I have been a
teacher, band-aid nurse, janitor, landscaper, and director.”
For
DiBiase, working with children was not just any job; it was a calling.
“I
have always loved kids, and I knew I would be a teacher at a young age,” she
said.
She said
the best part about working with this age group is the innocence and the joy
they give every day. DiBiase noted that young children do not have any
preconceived notions about anything, making them a pleasure to work with.
DiBiase
and the rest of the Birchwood teaching team have instilled in their young
learners the importance of community and the art of giving to others.
“Family
is the first community children experience, preschool is the second, and then
we introduce them to the greater community surrounding them,” DiBiase said.
The
teaching staff has created many service opportunities to introduce the children
to the concept of community that includes but are not limited to: a Mitten
Giving Tree, local food pantry donations, fulfilling Ronald McDonald House wish
lists, and – more recently, has also been very active in the RSU 14 Backpack
Program, in which they raise funds for healthy meals for older students by
running a “marathon” around the small Birchwood playground.
Although
saddened by the news, staff, and parents, celebrate DiBiase’s retirement and
all the positive enrichment Birchwood has offered young minds throughout the
years.
Lead
Preschool Teacher Jenn Boisvert began working at Birchwood in 2004, only taking
a short year away to be a stay-at-home mom.
“I
love Birchwood because everyone shares the same vision and is dedicated to the
mission,” she said. “Birchwood has created a strong family environment where
everyone is there for each other, and I feel this preschool has been successful
because it has provided high-quality care for children for many years. Our
focus has been to provide a safe, caring, and healthy environment for all
children to grow, develop and learn individually. Under Connie’s leadership,
Birchwood has grown to the highly respected program it is today through her
guidance and dedication to young children.”
Boisvert
stated she loves DiBiase because she cares about, values and respects her
employees.
“She
has a generous heart and truly cares about everyone’s well-being,” Boisvert
said. “Connie has demonstrated strong dedication and support to her programs,
the children and their families.”
Parent
Shannon Sampson said that DiBiase and her staff are amazing, and her retirement
will be a significant loss for the Windham community.
“All
three of our children attended Birchwood's preschool programs and we will forever
be in their debt for the support Birchwood provided to our children's early
development,” Sampson said. “When our oldest started in the three-year-old
program at Birchwood over seven years ago, Connie provided guidance and
reassurance at every turn. Connie always supported her Birchwood teachers by
sending them to trainings and conferences yearly as well as the community of
Windham with the annual marathon to support the RSU 14 backpack program. The
list of enriching opportunities that Birchwood provided to our children is way
too long to list out, but we can say with confidence that every parent that
attended a Birchwood art show or end of the year graduation left astounded and
proud of not only their own children's hard work, but that of the staff at
Birchwood.”
DiBiase
carefully looks forward to the next journey in her life.
“As it
gets closer to July 1, the feeling gets heavier and heavier, but I look forward
to a new chapter,” she said. “I have had so many good years – it is just time
for me to experience other adventures.”
As
DiBiase waves goodbye, Sampson offers this sendoff:
“Although she will be greatly missed, we can't think of anyone who deserves retirement more than Connie,” Sampson said. “Thank you for caring for our children over the years as if they were your very own.” <